“I never smoked, I never drank and I never suffered from headaches,” Mary told me, matter-of-factly.
Yet, Eddie’s voice started to quiver as the couple retold the circumstances surrounding Mary’s sudden collapse with a brain aneurysm, more than 21 years ago.
A family birthday celebration was in full swing at the Lieshouts farm when Mary was discovered unconscious on the floor. She was transported by ambulance to Warragul hospital, where Eddie was informed by emergency staff “this is not for us Eddie, she has to go to Melbourne.”
And, while Mary was waiting for the helicopter to take her to Melbourne, she took a dramatic turn for the worse. And, as Eddie started to describe to me what he witnessed his wife go through, he stopped short, still clearly upset, by what he saw. Fortunately, Mary was able to be airlifted to Melbourne where she underwent urgent cranial surgery to save her life.
“Just like a kid, I had to grow right up again,” Mary said.
She had to learn so many aspects of life’s basic skills all over again, and for about six months Eddie would drive from Gippsland to Melbourne every day to see Mary and watch her progress.
According to Eddie, “For the first three years after Mary’s aneurysm it was murder. When we got married, I said to Mary, can you read and write? Then I’ll do the rest. After the aneurysm Mary couldn’t read or write, she would want to say something and she couldn’t get it out.”
Mary did collapse at home again, passing out unconscious, however this time it was in front of Eddie and a visiting council health care worker.
Eddie rolled Mary on her side, about five minutes passed by and her eyes started to blink and then strangely she got up!
“It is a funny world, this is, I’ll tell you,” proclaimed Eddie.
Mary did go on to receive further medical attention that day, and the ambulance officers asked her many questions, and her recollections came and went.
Mary would eventually return to the races, and many race clubs and fellow greyhound trainers are familiar with her absolute joy in catching greyhounds.
According to Eddie, “All Mary wants to do is go the races and catch dogs and she loves talking to people! She is always going through the form guides in advance working out which greyhounds she would like to catch,” he said.
Mary added: “I love doing that, I love seeing the dogs and catching greyhounds gets me out of the house and with greyhound racing, I’m always looking forward to something.”
In 2017, Aston Miley (Barcia Bale x Aston Elle), trained by Eddie, made the Group 1 Melbourne Cup final, a clear highlight in any greyhound trainer’s career, but perhaps more so to Eddie and Mary given all that they had been through.
Although Aston Miley did not win the Melbourne Cup, she was certainly an incredible metaphor for the couple’s ability to rise to the top.
Celebrating their 59th wedding anniversary last December, Eddie and Mary are now approaching their eighties. And as the husband-and-wife team reflected over their extraordinary lives together, it became obvious to me that greyhound racing has always given the couple hope for the future, and in many ways a reason to keep going, no matter how difficult life becomes.
If you stop and think what a 12-year-old school leaver and his childhood sweetheart could achieve – factoring in a near life-ending setback – well, clearly the odds are stacked against a successful outcome.
But that is what Eddie and Mary Lieshout have done… together they have beaten incredible odds.